In our group, one of the most powerful things we can do for each other is to simply hold space—listening without judgment, without rushing to fix, and without needing to offer solutions. I know it’s not always easy to ask for that kind of help. Sometimes, it can feel overwhelming to even explain what we need. That’s why stories like the one I’m about to share are so important—they give us a shared language and an easier way to connect.
This story about Larry Wisecamp beautifully captures the essence of what it means to be there for someone. And when you know this story, you don’t have to stumble over the words when you need help. You don’t have to explain. You can simply say, “Hey, I need you to be my Larry for a few minutes.” And the person you’re talking to will immediately know: you need space to be heard, not fixed.
As you listen to this story, I want you to think about how we can all be each other’s Larry. How we can create spaces where it’s okay to show up as we are, to unpack what we’re carrying, and to feel seen and heard. My challenge to you is this: not only ask for a Larry when you need one but also be ready to step into that role for someone else when they ask. That’s how we show up for each other.
